ana ma artha!

Ams I was driving 3al 5aleej at around 6 or so…

(la7th-taw ena kan 3ndy emte7an elyom, oo ams I was driving 3al 5aleej? La7ath-taw? Tra yhemny enkom tla7thoon ;Pp)

elmohem, I’m driving bl middle lane oo mo daysa...ymkn 60 or 70 cz kint close to elcamera eli 3nd marina oo ako eshara jeddamy ba3ad…estaw3abtaw elwath3 shlon?

Ok.

Yammy bethabt some car madree yaris tida wa7da mn hathela el cutat le9’3ar oo mashya lbnaya yammy eb nafs l speed hamm mo daysa even though she’s 3al left lane l2ana like I said fee eshara in like 100m.

Wara hal car, ako wa7ed eb infiniti oo ytareeeeeeek oo hernnnnn oo araf oo zeft 3la rasa inshallah..goloo amen =D

Elmohem ana al7en parallel to the girl oo estaw3abt ena el2a5 ela ela ye6la3 menha oo ydesh jeddamy!

6ab3an ana o ehya nafs lspeed fa mako majal ydesh jeddamy aw e9eer parallel to me a9lan…

the only way that would happen is if I actually BRAKE 3shan A9EER WARAH fa yegdar ydesh jeddamy

mestaw3been elwath3? Tra yhemny ena testaw3boon elwath3 ;Pp

elmohem while I was in the process of estaw3ebing wat el7arakat el bahlawaniya oo elflasher eli ga3d e6ega meant, he zooms to the right-most lane oo b3dain swerves jeddamy to go to the left-most lane 3shan e9eer jeddam lbnaya, 7elo?

We9al el2eshara gably, oo lman ana we9alt yamma bl lane maly, wela he rolls his window down oo egool the following:

“5ara 3laich oo 3la wayhech…entay ma t3arfeen tsogeen?”

6ab3an la agoolkom wayhy shlon 9ar…mo shocked…mo appaled…mo in absolute bewilderment

3ad ana wa7da my temper kilish mo shay…bs honestly mn kithr ma kint ma9dooma…I couldn’t react…I couldn’t speak or move or even breathe.

I actually had to go back in time 3shan I double-check I heard things correctly

And then I realized that the most intense feeling I was feeling was DISGRACE.

DISGRACE that I drive in the same street as this 7uthala
DISGRACE that I live in the same country as this 7uthala

But most of all, DISGRACE that I belong to the same country as this 7uthala.


Now, adree eb7ukm my very limited free time I don’t go out as much as I would like, bs ya jma3a…



SHINO GA3D E9EER EB DEERATNA?!

Since when was it okay to scream out profanities in public in the middle of the street?

Since when was it okay to use this kind of language for such a trivial situation?

And most importantly,

Since when did all the men in this country lose their decency?


SHINO GA3D E9EER EB DEERATNA?!

Meta we9alna halmustawa elmun7a6? When did we hit rock bottom?

But most importantly,

WHAT WENT WRONG?!

Look, ana mo ga3da agolookom ena I’m an angel oo I don’t swear or I’m never around people who swear or what not…bs I know exactly WHEN to watch my language, WHERE to watch my language and WHO to watch my language infront of!

Ya3ny seriously, lets just assume ena even etha ana eli kint ‘3al6ana on the street out there, does that give him the right to speak to me like that?


SHINO ANA ASHTE’3EL 3IND OBOOK?!

ETGOOLY WA5RAY BAWA5ER?!

5O ESMA SHARE3 OBO RA3Y ELINFINITI, MO?!

Ana 7addy 7addy lma akoon sayga agool 7asby allah 3la ebleesk or 3asa rabby la ya36eek el3afya…

Laa oo mara my mom heard me say it oo galatly don’t say it its mean!


Elmohem, im slightly drifting off the subject hnee, bs ya jma3a bas aby an answer!


SHINO GA3D E9EER EB DEERATNA?!

I try to stay as far away as I can from politics and serious discussions and kil shay y’3eth along those lines l2ana basically, I came to the conclusion ena nothing is changing!


BAS LAI META?!

LAI META THINGS ARE GONNA STAY THE SAME?!

Ymkn its because el wayed eli amthaly sakteen oo detaching themselves from halswalef that things are moving from worst to wortest!

First of all, it starts with people ga6een their kids 3al 5adam chenna there's no tomorrow! Zain etha malkom 5elg 3yal oo tarbeya oo mas2oleeya, laish etyeboonhom? Elmafrooth neyyat ay wa7ed lma eyeeb yahel tkoon ena he adds something productive to the world, ena he brings someone who can make a difference in the world...

A9LAN MA Y3AWERHOM GALBHOM LMA EGE6OON 3YALHOM LEL5ADAM?!

Oo al7en ente5abat coming up oo zeft and wat not 3shan yred nafs elmajles ysawy nafs el5abba eli ysaweeha kil mara oo ygoolk 8anoon man3 e5tela6 oo 8anoon zeft 3amal elmar2a 3shan lma eyoon 7uthala nafs ra3y elinfiniti ye6l3oon bara in public, nekteshef ena they were brainwashed into ideas that they probably don’t fully understand and follow blindly, which to a certain extents is both sad and pathetic, since they really have no parents or what not to guide them...

oo ye6la3 blshare3 egool weee hathy bnaya a9lan el7ukoma tgool ena may9eer teshte’3el after 8

ethan I am more capable than her

ethan she's not equal to me

ethan she doesnt have the same rights as me

ethan I'm superior to her

ethan if I can drive, then she obviosuly cant!!


SHINO GA3D E9EER EB DEERATNA?!

Madree madree shino ga3da a5arbe6 oo shino ga3da agool or if what I’m saying is making sense on any kind of level (oo I really have a feeling it isnt) bs wallah ana me7tara oo menba6a chabdy…

oo laykoon 3abalkom mn ra3y elinfinity l2ana I rolled up my window and turned up the song on my radio…l2ana ana ma yhemny ra2y el7uthala eli nafsa,


Bs l2ana 7al deeratna 9ar yza3el…

yza3el lai darajat ena I have tears in my eyes now as I type this post

7al deeratna 9ar ybachy…

Imagine a scenario for a minute ena there is some guy from wherever visiting Kuwait oo ga3d blsayyara eli jeddamy

Oo yesma3 chithee 7achy

Oo ya5eth hal impression 3al Kuwaitiyeen oo 3al Kuwait weya lai deerat’hom..


Terthoon?

Terthoon ena fee yom esolef m3 his freinds oo egool I’ve been to Kuwait once and there, they use profanities on the streets 3ady?


Terthoon 3aleha?

The irony is ena elmaw8ef 9ar weyay akthar men mara...I say I'm from Kuwait oo elperson eljeddamy egool really? I/My freind went there once and said x, y and z about it...


Terthoon 3la deeratkom?

Terthoon 3al Kuwait?

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Daddy's Girl said...

WAAAAAAAAAAAAY

weeeeeee3!!!!

la madry shagool seriously!!!! Sakhant min il 7arra!!!

chan gelteelaa

Laaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
akhaf inta ile it3rf itsoog?

3la il aqal lo ma a3rf asoog, 3la il aqal metrbiyaaaaa

lakin inta la tarbiya wala akhlag wala syaqa il 7amd le allah wel shokor!!!!

o im typing so hard the B came off the keyboard min il 7arra!!!
I was thinking to my self today... shino il awadm wain ingarthaw

o i came to conclusion

il awadm il san3a ma inqarthat
il awadm ilee kanaw imraben.hom ahalehom inqarthaw...

il mayhala ilee bel showare3 killa tarbiyat khadam!!! O hathe il natejaa

Madry laish wain ma neltefet 3ahat

3ahat banat
3ahat myaneen showare3
3ahat bel dawamat

o la gamaw yejahroon ib their khyas b3d ... inah y3ni accept it yalla

mo agolokom bahajer!!! itgolon le laish?!!?!??!?

Hathee laish

allaaaaaaaah yabelah ana yegoli chithee

3adi jedan alef my steering wheel 3leeh o akser lah syartah... 3ad wasla feneee leeeeen ihnee fene 7arra 3la 7alna madry shloon a6ale3ha

ityee feeh 3ad qal3a

walla ma teste7ee... ham '3al6an o maynoon

ham itseb

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moi said...

:S:S:S and more :S:S:S:!!!!!!!!!!! 3ad elyoum my aunt ga3da ete7cha in the same subject as you ya7lailech chenech ga3da weyana kentay;p, she said "ESHSAYER EBDEERATNA??" ..o min hal 7achy..

Susy.Q said...

ma yste7y 3ala wjho !! allah yehdyo ysam7o o bs.

he has no right what so ever to talk to any one,, especialy a WOMEN like that!

o ana ba3ad ma aby a7ad ygool kitha 3ala l kuwait..

l2ni ana ba3ad mn il kuwait

and if ur thinking she uses "kitha" insted of "chithi" and other words.. well cuase i love in ksa for the past couple of years and got hooked on their lanuage :p

LOVING ur posts keep it up

o lat thaygeen 9adrik take it easy

shay 9ara7a ma ystahil

xx

Ahmed said...

First of all..relax and صلي على النبي
things like that happen everywhere. What really make me sad about happened is when the guy said these words to u. y3ni seriously it's inappropriate thing to say to a girl or to an old man or anyone in ur situation. these kind of ppl really need a lesson about good manners. next time u should have eggs in ur car to throw it at these kind of ppl!

Gee said...

jelat 7aya walla
el nas kel malhm o tzeed halagat.hm
madri lai wain byo9lon akthar men eli w9lola already

kel shay 9ar ethayeg el 5elg eb hal dera ;\

CuteandCuddly said...

oh my god
walla 7mar
dont worry your pretty little head :)
you didnt do anything wrong he is an asshole excuse my french :P
and not all the guys are like that :)
there are still some decent ones and if didnt hit rock bottom because if it did people like you would not exist :)
"now let me see that smile "
"i know you want to smile come on"
lol
xoxoxoxox

ZoN said...

ana mo3ar'9a

Ahmed said...

صدق من قال السواقة فن و ذوق و أخلاق

On-The-Rocks said...

first of all you mixed two subjects together, being brainwashed has nothing to do with bing qaleel il adab, bas whats happening these days with parents ina they have a baby and they forget about them, la mabadi2 la qeyam, la sana3, la tarbiya, oo mga66i6een in streets, fa shino il outcome? il outcome ohma il 7uthala you're talking about.

a ver small point abi to disagree with you on, illy ihya: Since when did all the men in this country lose their decency?

well not all of them, and yes some of them 3aballihum shari3 oboohum bas mo killihum, im not like that nor my family and friends, tara il zaineen il 7imdilla still mawjodeen bas ma ni6la3, killa bil bait, li anna il hailag mi7talleeen il balad :)

Abdulrazzaq Al-Musallam

pink said...

EEE walah sh9ayer eb deertna :(( shay ylw3 elchabd mn 9ija hathaaaa!!

desertpalms said...

wow..thats disgustingly low =/

theres people like that in any country..what can you do!!!

Aurous said...

enshallah things will change, but I doubt that!! :\

we should start changing, difficult but doable. After all, we are the largest demographic in the country :D

Candy said...

that bastard :@
dandoon wallah its NOT only in Kuwait;these zebalah ppl r everywhere..
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i'll tell u one situation that happened 2 me personally, i think its a good feedback regarding ur post..

(1)i went with my step mama to the AD mall,& when we wanted to come back home there was this
guy with his friend in a station car,he was teasing the taxi coz the taxi
didn't let him pass from the taxies parking b4 him!!(ra3ee el station ho el '3al6an'
imagine now he was trying to hit the taxi so he (the taxi driver) would die!!!!!!!!
wallah 7assait 3omre eb an american movie!!! he said so many nasty comments lel taxi driver
it was like مشاده كلامية بالشارع وبالسيارة ويحاول يدعم فينا !!!!!!!
wallah i felt the i was going 2 die,my heart gam yedeg bel 8oo
7assait ene ra7 amoot mn el heart attack
my breath was going to stop !

yallah 6awalt 3alaich :D

Anonymous said...

5O ESMA SHARE3 OBO RA3Y ELINFINITI, MO?!


LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL


HAHAHHAHAAHHAHA

Anoosa said...

Allah ya5tha!! ashakal mafrouth ma tenwejed bel q8!!! i hate them!!!!!!! they are destroying our sem3a a9lan i know ppl who are not orignally from q8 and are living here and they are saying what is this ??? why are ppl like this!!!??? AMerica AMerica itself doesnt have this whole shit!!!!

fashloooooooona!!!

jooj said...

@@@ OMG 9j 9j 9j mb mtraby! mayeste7y 3ala wajha! y3ne '3air ina y9are5 hal alfa'6 felshare3, y9are5 w y6awl ilsana 3ala bent?!!?!?!? mb rayyal malat 3alih

Abdullah said...

chill girl. Stuff of that nature happen everyday.

Look, do not take this personally. Why ? because this male driver does not know who you are. He is sinful for sure lakin he does not mean YOU DANDOON, he meant it for the object that was infront of him, he was obviously upset at something and took it all out on you.

I guarantee you, this guy feels bad now. I agree with you, what was done is stupid and shameful, yet do not, not even for once think, that it was meant to offend you personally.

Its great ina you held it down, been classy with it. I applaud you.

ĐǻñĎõøðñ said...

danderma,
ba3ad galby entay ;**
tadreen ena your comments always make me smile? =)
al7en a9lan lebtesama shaga wayhee!

see?

okay you cant really see, but imagine? ;Pp

LOL!

wallah kalamich killa 9a7 ya galby...

ana sha59eyan lel7een madree laish sekat...oo tra ana no3y kilish ma asket oo mashoof jeddamy lma a3a9eb, bs wallah mn kithr el9adma i couldnt even react =(
elmawthoo3 kilish mo shay =(

9erna surrounded by 3ahat, oo 9ar el6abee3y enich tshofeen 3ahat everywhere, oo el strange enich tshofeen normal people =\

7alatna 9arat ma2sat =\

wa ma 5afeya kana a3tham =(

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moi,
ymkn i was lol ;Pp
laa laa i wasnt dont freak out hehe ;Pp
bs wallah its good to know that fee other people wondering hamm oo mo 3ajebhom eli ga3d e9eer =\

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susy q,
ba3ad galby entay ;**
ashwa ena fee nas mo 3ajebhom eli ga3d e9eer oo not just me =)
oo the saudi accent is cool...bs 7ub elwa6an malah mtheel loooool ;Pp

thanks for reading and enjoying ;**

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ahmed,
w3alayh afthal elsalat welsalam =)
ana eli ba6 chabdy blmawthoo3 kila ena the situation was soooo trivial ya3ny shda3wa etgool lafth chithee 3la a problem on the street!
wallah wayed thayag 5elgy =(

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gee,
wallah kalamich 9a7 =(
ana mn yomha ma 6ela3t kilish l2ana seriously maby a7e6 nafsy eb halmaw8ef mara thanya =\
if i controlled my temper last time, im not sure i can do that next time =\

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cuteandcuddly,
**GRINS**
ba3ad galby entay wallah ;**

youre right i guess...its just halnormal people hal decent people madree wain e5tefaw

they should be the majority and not the minority chithee =\

this sucks wallah..these proportions suck =\

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zon,
mo3ar'9a eb shino dear?
ma fehamt =\

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ahmed,
9a7 lsanik =)

ĐǻñĎõøðñ said...

on-the-rocks,
first of all, tra when i reread the post, ekteshaft ena blogger kan m8arer y5aly a paragraph in a very small font fa kan shakla chenna lines, fa i fixed that =)

thany shay, yes i do realize i mixd alf shay eb ba3ath...i was very upset when i wrote this post. a9lan i was planning to write about the incident only bs i dont know where all that other stuff came out of hehe =\

bs you know, i start writing, then ash6a6 oo things come pouring/spilling out hehe ;)

thaleth shay, i agree with you 3la this point...its very very WRONG of me to generalize oo a3amem chithee...oo yes i do realize ena there are good people out there eli 7aram athlemhom oo a7e6hom eb 7esbat hal5amma, so i do apologize for that,

bs wallah kil ma ashoof lproportion mal good people to 5amma people ytheeg 5elgy...its reversed...it shouldnt be like this wallah this is not right! this isnt the way things are supposed to be =\

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pink,
ee wallah shay ylawe3 elchabd!
makes me wanna sit at home and lock myself up with my books =(

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deze,
i guess youre right =\
shay ythayeg el5elg oo y'3eth wallah =(

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aurous,
someone's been studying ;Pp
turns out med school is useful after all lol ;Pp
oo yea, tra etha e7na ma '3ayarna, mako a7ad '3airna by'3ayer =\

bs fee amal ena n'3ayer? =(

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candy,
laa galby ma 6awalty shda3wa?
l blog bloggich 7beeby ;**
oo ethaher ena being rude and ill-mannered is a trend hal ayyam =(

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anony,
wallah i was driving with my mom ams agolaha shino maktoob 3al sign...etgooly share3 el5aleej el3araby...geltlaha la2 agray 3adel esma share3 ra3y elinfiniti =\

glad i made you laugh though ;Pp

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anoosa,
goolay 3asa raby la ya36eeh el3afya =D
wallah awadem etfashel, bs eli ybe6 elchabd ekthar enhom mawjodeen wain ma tlfeen wayhech =\

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jooj,
ma3alaih...
shinsawee....fee awadem ma teste7y =\
allah ysam7a =)

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abdullah,
ana adree ena he doesnt mean me personally...ya3ny i understand ena people get upset on the street and what not,
bs still, that doesnt give him the right to act like that!

kaa ana i got upset oo mad, bs ma tshofny re7t de3amt sayyarta wla i got out of my car and hit him with a golf club!

ya3ny etha kil wa7ed acted out of emotions and not logic, chan 9arat eldenya fawtha, dont you think?

eshda3wa said...

umbay la!

ma9adeg

waqe7 waqe7!

ya3ila elshagoool al7eeen

9j awadem moo metrabya

wa6i mun7a6

3asa y9eeer fee nafs hal mawqef oo arda!

MashMosh said...

very interesting topic!!
a55555 sho bagool o sho b5ali yal '3alyeh allah ey3eena bss =D waiiin reyaaayeeeel awal o wain reyyayeeel a7eeeen ma gool '3air allah yer7amhoom btw not all men are che i knw fe wayed are good but most of them are a big NO NO!!

Abdullah said...

Dandoon, i do not disagree with you. akeed everybody must hold it in. akeed.

lakin i wanted to calm you down by showing you how un-personal what he did was.

Again, he is wrong min rasa lai sasa ,, lakin you know not everybody acts like that. And again, i applaud your classy behavior.

ĐǻñĎõøðñ said...

eshda3wa,
AMEN TO THAT =D
even though a7es ena ma ra7 tafreg weya wayed ya3ny =\

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mashmosh,
wallah ma yendara where theyre going...

i think buga a very little few l2anhom 3la washk len8erath ;Pp

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abdullah,
lol! ;)
adree wallah adree dont worry =)
thakartny eb that movie anger management lma y9are5 bwyhohom kilihom oo ygool IM CALM! ;)

i know what you meant wallah ;)

oo i thank you for applauding me...even though i think if i wouldve reacted 'vulgary' i woudlve barradt chabdy more ;)

bs ma 3laih...wat goes around come around...i believe in karma =D

Jester said...

DISGRACE!! hehe

Vixen said...

shal7ache. min ay zbala 6l3 hatha.

babe dont work urself up.

trash is everywhere.

its a necessity.

it makes us look better too : )

;*

Stand-Alone~ said...

OMG FILSHARI3??!!
ARE YOU KIDDING ME!!!!

9eg mako tarbiya..
and this comes kuwaiti to another kuwaiti :s
omg.. i cant believe this!

[MaDry-Shakw~] said...

Leq8 E5tarbat 5la9 makw nas zainen madry wain ra7aw :P

super-sonic said...

Ana ma3ach eb hal shay, lel2asf deeratna e5tarbat, y3ny madry shloun enas gamaw edawroon el shar eb ay 6aree8a o 3ala ay shay, chena el7een eley ma e6awil 9oota o eraded mo rayal wela 5awaf! 8al el e7teram bain el nas o tara hal 7ache ham 3al banat too lana shayef mawa8if be3youni banat yethaweshon weya e9bayan jedam ala o 5alga, o shay thane ma edish el 3agil ena shloun el shabab yer'9oonha 3ala nafshom ela7goon banat 5alg alah bel shuwari3 wel mujama3at o ohma 3indohum 5awat o ahal, y3ny enta ma ter'9aha 3aleek ter'9aha 3ala '3airik?

ĐǻñĎõøðñ said...

jester,
im missing the sound effects in the backgroud ;Pp

bs theyre there in my head i promise! ;Pp

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vixen,
well,
all is fair if i can look better in the end

**FIXES HAIR AND POSES FOR CAMERA**

LoL!

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stand-alone,
wallah wala ana ya standy!
lail7een elsalfa mo dasha mo5y!
oo ymkn loo 9ayra 7ag someone else oo they told me chan ma9adagt bs i saw it with my own eyes! =\

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madry-shakw,
i think enhom ga3deen b byoot'hom 5awfan mn hal awadem eli blshare3 =\

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super-sonic,
ee!
bethabt!
my bro was telling me about that a few days ago oo hamm ma9adagt! mn meta was this okay?! when did all this happen and most importantly, where was i?!

allah y7afethna oo yahdeehom =\

A Journal Entry said...

g6eee3a il eslooob!!
shino ya3ni il shari3 shari3 obooh?!

ĐǻñĎõøðñ said...

a journal entry,
i made sure i looked at the sign wallah =\

it still said share3 el5aleeg el3araby mo share3 ra3y elinfiniti =@

Pearla said...

I only can say
( LA TSHKELE ABKEEELK ) .
i swear if i open my mouth on whats happening over here , it won't shut up ela youm elden !
y3ne one example,its a small example mo shay
My Uni here (KSU) , if i go in at like lets say 8 a.m and i find out that oh my classes are canceled, i can't leave,cause we're not allowed to leave ! The door opens at 11:45 .. la7'9y its not 11:30 no 11:45 amot o afham leh hal 45 !! anyways , and they are working on keeping the door open all the time, so nshoof when will that happen ;s aaa5 bs !!

L.R.643 said...

sweety that's just too bad to be true.. qaleel il adab o 7ata law kntay '3al6ana bil asas, mala 7ag yi3amlich ib hal islob.. tirky 3anich o allah yahdy, u shud feel pitiful ina mu san3 nafsich, and not aggravated... brush it off ;*